I feel so hopeless and I feel I cant handle this anymore

by B Mary
(Phoenix)

I feel very desperate and dont know how to handle all this pain, my husband had an affair with another women who is also married with 3 kids. I forgave him and accept him back home and after 1 month he left me and went back with her. Is now been 2 months that we been seperated but for the last 3 weeks he tells me he need time and that he loves me and still trying to control every decision I do. he doesnt want me to go out or have any male friends and tells me that the reason why he cant be with me right now is because he has trust issues about me when I have never never done anything to give him reason to dough, he understand that is an issue he has and said he need to work on it but he also blame me for me not giving him the secuirty about him not been able to trust me but at the same time he said he trust me more then anybody in this world. last week I just found out that the lover has already filed for divorce and my husband is now leaving with her at her apartment but he also has his own apartemnt. he doesnt give any explanations and after certain hours he wont answer any of my calls. I feel very lonely, depressed I dont want to be alive no more and I dont know what to do, I feel confused with no directions I'm afraid of everything and I always crying and cant stop thinking not even a second about all this situation. Please help me or tell me how to get over all this I dont want to hurt no more believing everything he tells me when he give me some kind of hope but act like if he doesnt care about me.

Prayer Team

Dear Mary,
Jesus is able to grant you uncommon peace. Ask the Holy Spirit to reveal the Prince of Peace in all your situation. Mary, it is hurting when one treats you like you are being treated. But, remember, Jesus is able to bring uncommon peace and grant you wisdom on what to do every step of the way. I pray that God will fill you with wisdom, knowledge, understanding, and the mind of Christ. Mary, remember that God has great plans for you and it may not be clear immediately but hold on and you will see the goodness of God in your life. I call forth every blessing that God has for you to be revealed and manifested in your life. I rebuke the plan of darkness and decree that those plans will not prevail in Jesus Mighty Name, Amen.

Read - Job 5: 12 -13.

Blessings,

Bro. Chester
Prayer Team

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Oct 19, 2011
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by: Anonymous

my sister in christ. My simple an honest advise to you move on. If this husband is unfaithful might as well leave him. The true and faithful husband is Jesus and He can supply and satisfy the longing in our heart. I know you will feel pain through the process at the end you will smile and thank you Jesus for holding you in.
Your husband is a promise breaker and a liar so what do u think...what u does to you that lady will do it to him and trust me that will open his eyes and when u come back to you. You dont need him anymore as Jesus is the source of our everything.
Jun 23, 2010
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by: JERMAINE NEBLETT

My dear sister you must fight for your marriage God way that is to obey the word of God willingly be strong in the Lord and in the power of his might.Your husbands actions is aganist the word of God so you my dear friend stand on the word of God and when everything falls you will remain standing its not going to be easy but by the power of the most high God you can do all things through Christ who strengten you.Take God to his word God bless marriages and his word never changes in times of lonelyness listen for his voice study his word and wait for his promise he is never late or early but always on time,just remember God will use you to get his victory because its his word and name you are applying.Above all remember love never fails look deep in side of you and ask Jesus to show you the way to bring your husband back home dont try in human strenght seek the holy spirit . I pray that every sunder that comes aganist your marriage be destroyed by the blood of Jesus CHRIST amen.
Jun 23, 2010
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starstarstarstarstar 		Fight the good fight of faith
by: JERMAINE NEBLETT

My dear sister you must fight for your marriage God way that is to obey the word of God willingly be strong in the Lord and in the power of his might.Your husbands actions is aganist the word of God so you my dear friend stand on the word of God and when everything falls you will remain standing its not going to be easy but by the power of the most high God you can do all things through Christ who strengten you.Take God to his word God bless marriages and his word never changes in times of lonelyness listen for his voice study his word and wait for his promise he is never late or early but always on time,just remember God will use you to get his victory because its his word and name you are applying.Above all remember love never fails look deep in side of you and ask Jesus to show you the way to bring your husband back home dont try in human strenght seek the holy spirit . I pray that every sunder that comes aganist your marriage be destroyed by the blood of Jesus CHRIST amen.

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